Tuesday, April 20, 2010

Lauren and Brad's Lovely Life

Today I was at a district foreign language leadership meeting. It was our last meeting of the year, which means summer is upon the horizon. :) At the end of the meeting people shared some celebrations they had this year. Some teachers were excited about passing rates, some were excited about 36 days until summer, one girl shared about her 1st half marathon. Then Connie (head of languages for Cy Fair) shared that a teacher had just gotten married this past month, so we all said how excited we were, just as they had done 8 months ago when I got back to work from my honeymoon. All I could think was, 8 months. How has it been 8 months? I know what you're thinking...."8 months is short, I've been married some odd years," but to me it still feels like month one....total bliss.

Last week I had sushi (yummm) with one of my long time friends, Rachel. Her and I hadn't gotten together since before the wedding and she asked "what has the biggest adjustment been?" That is always one of the hardest questions to answer, because marriage was one of the smoothest life changing events ever. Going to college was an adjustment, going to Spain was an adjustment, coming back to Houston was an adjustment, and working..well, needless to say that was quite the learning curve. But getting married has been so smooth. I know there will be hard times and I know it won't always be this easy, but I feel confident we'll always love each other. And yes, I get mad when he puts his workout bag on the kitchen table and he gets mad when I leave my clothes on the floor, but those are so minor in the grand scheme of our marriage.

It's all the little things that make my marriage so fun. It's the cuddles on the couch watching American Idol, learning how to cook new things (well, for me, just learning how to cook), going to memorial park together, eating outside on a beautiful day, and road tripping all around Texas all the time.

so with all that said....

Happy 8 months to us!! And yes, I've been teased about the monthaversaries. Some people think monthaversary isn't a term, but if you know me at all, I love celebrations and marriages are worth celebrating. Sometimes I go overboard with all the celebrations, but there are too many good things in this life to just let them go unoticed. So I notice. :)

And besides, if boottylicious can be a word, so can monthaversary. Take that Beyonce!

To my Brad, I love you and happy 8 monthaversary. :)